In life we face losses and that is a fact of life.We sometimes win sometimes lose.These looses give us pain as we could not achieve what we had to may it be losing a football match or failing to do well in studies to a simple argument which went wrong .We then go into our shell and feel sad or dissapointed and may even vent it out in from of anger or by rash actions.But we fail to realize that these losses teach us more things than victories.
Let me propound with an example.You go for an exam and fail to pass or secure marks less than your expectations then you feel bad.You may start cribbing about it or blame the system or the examiner or the injustice met out to you.But,this is i believe done in the heat of the moment. First calm down yourself and think Did i go wrong somewhere? There may be a chance that the fault may lie within you not outside. There is a certain system in the world and even if it does not go right for you its a lesson well learnt .
One should keep an understanding that success and failure are part of life and one should not get swayed because of it .One should always stay at 0 (To know more read my previous article http://tejasforyou.blogspot.in/2012/02/lifes-fundamental-fact-change.html ). That helps in thinking with a balanced mind. Then most of the times you realize the fault was at your side. It is said that the most difficult thing is to find a fault (this i guess happens due to egos of people). Knowing the fault you can prevent the same mistake from happening again. Some people know might argue that they can identify faults but
correcting is difficult. I would say to such people that correction par is easy but it requires effort and hard work to mould the wrong into a right. After al that is the basic reason you failed and will not attain success until you rectify the wrong.
Remember, there is always something u gain wen u lose something. May it be the realization of the fault or may it be that new vistas are opening for you and a better opportunity can knock your door.Always have faith in the ways of god and then maybe you can spot the faults early because of this realization. Never blame Problems or losses learn what they teach you.
One should keep an understanding that success and failure are part of life and one should not get swayed because of it .One should always stay at 0 (To know more read my previous article http://tejasforyou.blogspot.in/2012/02/lifes-fundamental-fact-change.html ). That helps in thinking with a balanced mind. Then most of the times you realize the fault was at your side. It is said that the most difficult thing is to find a fault (this i guess happens due to egos of people). Knowing the fault you can prevent the same mistake from happening again. Some people know might argue that they can identify faults but
correcting is difficult. I would say to such people that correction par is easy but it requires effort and hard work to mould the wrong into a right. After al that is the basic reason you failed and will not attain success until you rectify the wrong.Remember, there is always something u gain wen u lose something. May it be the realization of the fault or may it be that new vistas are opening for you and a better opportunity can knock your door.Always have faith in the ways of god and then maybe you can spot the faults early because of this realization. Never blame Problems or losses learn what they teach you.
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